"What seemed like a good idea has turned into a battlefield."
Don't you just feel sad when a relationship doesn't go the way you hoped it would? Friendship and love, these are the things that break our heart the most. Here's how it goes, we start off as strangers, set our first impressions, started hanging out, sharing thoughts, and some, common interest, but as time goes by, we enter the comfort zone, the part where both parties feel comfortable with each other's presence, without having to conceal all your bad habits as there is nothing left to hide, however slowly, we stop trying to impress each other, for good cases, this is due to mutual understanding, for the bad side, it's because there's no reason to keep on trying, and therefore, we're headed to where we started, strangers again. That's just how life works, every relationship is a gamble, you won't know how long will it last, but you just go for it, because at some point, your heart told you that he or she is the one. The things at stake is your time, your feelings and your effort. Those who win, will gain happiness; those who don't, get their hearts broken.
"Peace will come when one of us puts down the guns."
When you know someone's important to you, you'd know that the point, is not winning an argument, but to not lose a valuable relationship. I always held on to this theory that if there's a fight, undeniably both parties must have done something wrong, it's never a one-sided fault. The only way to resolve it is only by either one to first give in, for the sake of peace. Think of it this way, one day, you're in an argument with your best buddy or lover, over what? Because he or she said something bad unintentionally, and one of you is too head strong to forgive, the other is refusing to apologize, and what now? A friendship, built for years, ends with just a fight. Is it worth it? All those happy memories, ruined, because of one unhappy, insignificant memory, that you'd soon regard as foolish when you reminisce on your good memories, crying over the stupid fight that you shouldn't have even started, and I bet you won't even remember what was the reason that you were fighting over.
"It's easy to fall in love, but it's so hard to break somebody's heart."
No matter how many times your loved ones have wronged you, you can forgive them over and over again; but it takes a whole lot of massive mistakes for your heart to really break, for you to finally let go and give up of someone that you held dearly for years. So don't, don't ever make that mistake, for that heart, can never be patched up again. It's hard enough to find someone who knows your soul, out of these 7 billion people in the world, is it worth your trouble, to seek all over again for this someone whom no one can ever replace in a million years?
This is not a battlefield, we have nothing to gain from winning the fight.
Have you won yourself a friendship or love that is worth a lifetime so far? I know I have my two best buddies to count on, Tzee Yee and Chun Hoe. As for Mr.Right, let's wait and see. (:
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